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>>376889 Really? Like you should find stuff hot but nothing really gets your motor running? I've heard tales of asexuals but I've never really encountered one. I know my arousal can go from zero to 60 in 5 seconds flat, so it's hard to imagine someone who just never has to deal with the "sexual interruption", so to speak.
It doesn't really "kink shame" if you don't find something hot. That's why they're called fetishes; a relatively low percentage are going to be into them or even find them mildly arousing. Just try not to tell them they're a horrible person or whatever for liking something, you're just not into that thing. That said, there are certain kinks that raise the subtle question of consent, legality, and injury.
>>376901 >>376904 pedophilia, on 4chan at least, does seem to act as a kind of extended fantasy for a lot of dudes who seem like they've kind of given up on normal relationships, one way or another. The incidence of people really seeming serious and earnest about it has seemed to shift over time, the modern boards seeing it as an aberration, not a mainstay. Which is good, as most of it appears to be escapist nonsense or trolling in normal dudes, exacerbated by the availability of smut. But even /co/ has its' share of underage characters that get a... "mature" treatment.
Incest... I should preface this with Incest and pedophilia always being terrible ideas in some form. For every cutsey "siblings experiment" story there's like 10 actual stories of people horribly damaged by it. But within the realm of kink and masturbation, I always thought the draw in incest was more physical, more about it being an older woman than that woman being some kind of analog for your mother, and that the relationships depicted weren't especially the draw, although the thrill of taboo often lends a certain edge to things. Incest doesn't necessarily disrupt physical attraction; older women or older can often be very attractive for both looks and experience, and incest stories just seem like a cheap way of enabling the buggering.
tl;dr it's good to be open to things and a lot of these fetishes are harmless so long as they're kept solely in the realm of fantasy. If you've found your significant others' porn stache, it might actually help to talk to them about what's in there and find out why they think it's hot, and maybe work some of that reasoning into your erotic play. (warning: this may lead you to more than you ever knew about the person in question)
But don't feel ashamed if you don't find something sexually arousing or necessarily get the kink. You can be accepting of fetishes without having to practice them yourself, and it' good to recognize the boundaries of fantasy for kinks, as many kinks pursued in earnest can lead to very fucked up situations.
And, don't listen to your friend about feeling bad about not uploading nudes. As ubiquitous as it is and as much as I do love it when any girl wants my attention like that, it's your choice, your body, and your private life. Some people like being seen, just the thought of a lot of random strangers pleasuring themselves to that person, they get off on that. But not everyone does, and personally, I prefer girls who want me to view them like that when I look at that kind of smut. That Facebook/nudes stalking thing people do creeps me out. I mean, obviously people on facebook fuck, but if you don't want to be viewed as such then I'd say that prerogative should override the sharing of smut. It's not the person pictured's fault, it's generally the asshole who took the video. And if you don't want to be a part of that, I'd actually say that's smarter than not these days.
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